Morning came but no Harry. I went ahead and walked up to the campground registration area to make sure we secured the same campsite for another night because people were driving around like hawks just waiting for someone to suggest they were packing up to leave. Right when I returned to the campsite I turned around and I see Harry rollin up in his 1992 Toyota truck. Fuck ya, there was a bit of suppressed excitement as the park ranger rolled by and told me to put a lease on Honey, so once he left we hugged it out. Harry and Buddy, his black lab doggie, came bearing gifts in the form of a burrito from Del Taco. We caught up a bit smoked a spliff, ate the burrito and developed a plan of action for the day of climbing ahead.
I made sure Harry was aware of my lack of crack climbing experience, but as Harry does with his positive attitude and always encouraging demeanor, he said, "you'll be fine food". Gotta love Harry. So we sorted up the gear and loaded up the dogs in the back of the truck and headed to the Barker Dam parking lot, where we would hike about 1.5 miles in around the lake (which actually had water in it from the rains) and eventually hit the "let your freak flag fly" route. It was rated a 5.9, and I'll always remember the climb as it was my first lead baley and first top rope crack climb not to mention my first climb in Joshua Tree, and my first solo repel. I had to learn some crack climbing technique on the fly and with Harry's insightful instruction I made my way up the crack. It's definitely a different style than I'm used to. We then packed up and headed to a great sport slab climb, which had an absolutely gorgeous view once we got up to the top. We packed our gear and raced the sun to get back to the trail, navigating enormous boulders and jumping seasonal streams. As the sun dropped so did the temps and we smoked a celebratory spliff and headed back to camp for a delicious curried lentil bacon and veggie mix over rice. Had a big ole fire to combat the chilling breeze and called it a night.
After a restless nights sleep, one where Honey kept kicking me in the balls which provoked me to wrestle her into a more comfortable position, we awoke to a beautiful sunrise. I cooked us some great breakfast while Harry planned out the routes for the day. Coffee, breakfast, spliff, loaded up and went off. This time we took both cars, because I needed to leave around noonish, to get back and see Erika and attended our dinner plans with the beautiful Danielle Graham. Heading to our planned destination, Harry took a big U-turn and we ended up climbing two famous J-tree cracks on The Heart of Darkness wall. The first one was a fist fight for me, these were vertical climbs and I didn't have the proper tehnique in my arsenal, so it took me clawing tooth and knee to get up. After the first crack climb, I jumped straight onto the other climb, getting no rest and had to give up about halfway up after sighing a rock down at Harry hitting him in the hand. Not a great gesture to someone who had been so patient and encouraging to me this trip. Harry of course sped up and down the climbs making short time so I could try and get outta there around 12.
What a trip, kinda a long recap for a two day event, but it marks many firsts for me. It was a very humbling experience. Doing new things, challenging myself, always learning, facing fears. These are some thing that I took away from this weekend. Putting myself out there, being vulnerable, seeing how I respond. Ending on somewhat of a low note, but I promise I'll be back and return for the challenge, to grow and learn how I respond to adversity.